Between Fashion and Identity
I’ve been thinking about this thing lately. It sounds stupid at first, but it’s so true once you notice it. The whole idea of “you are what you wear” suddenly starts looking less like a quote and more like a real everyday experience. And I guess that’s the exact point where Fashion and Identity meet. Like, I swear I never believed in all that aesthetic, fashion psychology stuff. I used to wear whatever was clean. But the more I live in college, the more I realise how much Fashion and Identity are connected in the smallest, weirdest ways.
Because honestly, my clothes literally control my mood. And that’s not just fashion — that’s pure Fashion and Identity mixing into real life.
Like the other day, I wore this random outfit that I didn’t vibe with at all. The whole day felt off. And on another day, I wore an outfit that I loved — and suddenly everything felt lighter. That’s Fashion and Identity doing their little dance in the background even when I’m not paying attention.
When Clothes Decide Your Mood (and They Don’t Even Ask You)
It still surprises me how one outfit can switch my personality. Like, the right jeans can make me feel like I’m ready to give a speech in front of the whole campus. The wrong jeans? They can make me feel like disappearing into a wall. This is literally Fashion and Identity in daily, chaotic form.
I’ll be standing in front of the mirror like,
“Okay… who is she? Why does she look like she’s got her life together today?”
And then I’ll remember — it’s just the outfit. Or maybe it’s the way Fashion and Identity sync up and make me feel more like myself.
Some people think clothes are superficial, but honestly? Clothes affect your brain way more than we realise. Whether I like it or not, Fashion and Identity are besties inside my head.
My Wardrobe Is Basically a Scrapbook of My Life
I swear every time I open my wardrobe, it’s like flipping through a photo album. And if you think about it, this is exactly what Fashion and Identity are made of — memories, phases, moods, versions of ourselves.
There’s that dress from my “I’m going to glow-up this year” era.
A kurta from my mom that magically became my comfort outfit.
A hoodie that belongs to someone else but… let’s not discuss that.
Festival outfits.
Last-minute buys.
Clothes from bad days.
Clothes from great days.
My wardrobe is literally a timeline of my life. Each outfit is a tiny piece of my identity, proof that Fashion and Identity always walk together.
Trends Come and Go but My Vibe Stays Confused
Let’s be honest… nobody in college has one single aesthetic. At least not consistently. One day I dress like a Pinterest girl, the next day I’m a sleep-deprived potato. And the fun part is- this confusion IS my aesthetic. This is the real-life version of Fashion and Identity — switching, evolving, collapsing and rebuilding every week.
Some days it’s western.
Some days it’s ethnic.
Some days it’s gym wear.
Some days it’s “please don’t look at me today.”
Ask me my style and I’ll genuinely say:
“My style depends on which version of me woke up.”
And maybe that’s exactly how Fashion and Identity work — unpredictable, personal, and slightly chaotic.
Confidence Is Sometimes Just a Good Outfit Away
I don’t know if everyone feels this or if it’s just me, but when I wear a good outfit, everything changes. My energy changes. The way I talk changes. The way I walk changes. It’s not that the outfit is magic — it’s that it aligns with who I am at that moment. It’s pure Fashion and Identity blending together in real time.
Even if nobody compliments me, I feel sorted. I feel like I’m showing the world a version of me that I like. That’s the real confidence booster — not brands, not trends, just the harmony of Fashion and Identity.
Culture + Fashion = The Sweetest Mix
There’s something about Indian clothes that hits differently. Wearing a Kurti, saree, or jhumkas makes me feel rooted in a way that western outfits never can. This is honestly my favourite part of Fashion and Identity — how culture adds depth to how we dress.
Wearing a saree feels graceful.
Wearing a lehenga feels festive and powerful.
Wearing a simple salwar feels like home.
And mixing Indian with western? Uff.
That’s like peak Fashion and Identity creativity.
Colours Affect My Mood More Than I Admit
The way colours influence us is insane. When I feel happy, I automatically reach for bright colours. When I feel low, I stick to darker shades. When I need motivation, I wear something bold. When I need calm, I wear soft pastels.
And this is such a clear example of Fashion and Identity — my emotions literally pick my colours.
You Don’t Need Money to Feel Stylish
Some of my best outfits are unbranded, cheap, or years old. And the funny part? They make me feel more “me” than any fancy brand ever could.
Because style isn’t about money.
Style is about comfort.
Style is about honesty.
Style is about Fashion and Identity, not price tags.
People remember the vibe, not the brand.
Social Media Inspires… and Also Stresses Me Out
Pinterest outfits look amazing, but real life is not made of filters and perfect lighting. Instagram makes everything look aesthetic — but again, real life isn’t curated. This is where we get confused between online styles and real Fashion and Identity.
Influencers can wear picture-perfect outfits every day, but we live in hostels, classrooms, mess halls, and random Tuesdays. Our fashion is real, lived-in, wrinkled, comfortable — and honestly, more meaningful.
Your real identity is in how you dress on a random day, not in a staged photoshoot.
Dressing Up Is Just Another Form of Self-Love
If there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s that getting ready — even when you don’t feel like it — is an act of kindness to yourself. It’s that little whisper of “I deserve to feel nice today.”
This is the softest, sweetest version of Fashion and Identity — the inner connection between how you feel and how you choose to present yourself.
Even on my worst days, wearing something I love makes me feel slightly in control again.
Final Thought: Wear What Feels Like YOU
If I could summarise everything I feel about clothes, it would be this:
Wear what feels like YOU.
Not what trends say.
Not what people expect.
Not what looks the coolest.
Not what social media demands.
Your style is your story.
Your outfit is your emotion.
Your wardrobe is your identity.
That’s all Fashion and Identity really mean —
the version of yourself that feels honest, comfortable, and confidently YOU.
